Chastity Saved Our Love Life
It all started when my husband and I settled into our marriage. We had been married for a few years, and things were okay. We weren’t connecting like we used to, and the spark had gone out of our relationship. We had gone from passionate lovers to distant roommates. We decided to try something different to get the spark back — chastity.
My husband was hesitant at first. He was worried it was too extreme, but I was determined to try it. We decided to start with a 30 day challenge. During that time, we couldn’t have any sex or sexual contact with each other. We had to be completely abstinent.
The first few days were hard. We missed touching each other and having sex. We talked frequently about how we were feeling and discussed our frustrations. We spent more time together, but we weren’t intimate.
As the days went on, however, something amazing happened. Our communication improved and we began to reconnect. We talked about our feelings and our hopes for the future. We began to focus on the things that really mattered to us, like our relationship.
By the end of the 30 days, something had changed. We were talking more, we were enjoying spending time together, and we were looking forward to our future together. We had rediscovered what it was like to be intimate without having sex. We had tapped into something deeper than just physical pleasure.
Since that time, we have continued to practice chastity. We have found that it has helped us to connect on a deeper level. We talk more openly and honestly about our feelings and desires. We appreciate each other more and have more meaningful conversations.
When we do have sex, it is more meaningful and passionate than before. We savor the moments, knowing that it is a special time that we have to be together. We have found that it has helped to bring the spark back into our marriage and we are more in love than ever.
Chastity has definitely saved our love life. It has helped us to reconnect and to find the joy in the little moments in our relationship. We are so thankful for the lessons we have learned and the improved intimacy we now enjoy.
